10 Rituals to Sleep Better and Wake Up Energized
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Do you ever find yourself scrolling your phone in bed, eyes half-shut, telling yourself “just five more minutes”—only to realize it’s midnight (again) and you’re wide awake… and wired?
Yeah, I’ve been there too.
For a long time, my evenings were this messy mix of exhaustion, overstimulation, and guilt. I’d power through the day, ignore the fatigue signals, and then end the night with Netflix or Instagram until my brain crashed. I thought I was “relaxing,” but what I was actually doing was avoiding rest — and stealing energy from tomorrow.
And the next morning? I’d wake up tired, puffy, irritated, and frustrated with myself. It wasn’t just the sleep loss. It was the lack of ritual — of care. Once I started treating my evenings as a sacred time to recharge, everything changed. I slept better. I felt softer. I woke up with more energy and way less stress.
If you're craving that too, this post is for you.
Let’s talk about why the way we end our day is just as powerful as how we start it — and how a few calming rituals can help you build true rest and radiant energy (without the guilt or the grind).
Ready? Rock & Roll! ☺️☺️
💡Why Evening Rituals Matter More Than You Think
Most of us focus so much on morning routines that we forget what actually determines how we feel in the morning — the night before.
“Rest is not just the absence of activity. It’s a habit”.
When we wind down with intention, we:
Support natural melatonin production
Regulate cortisol (your stress hormone) so it stays low at night
Balance the nervous system — moving from fight-or-flight to rest-and-digest
Signal the body and mind that it’s safe to soften, slow down, and let go
And here’s what’s wild: rest is not just the absence of activity. It’s a habit. A muscle. Something you build, like strength or resilience.
So, how do we build it? Gently. One tiny ritual at a time
🌙 10 Calming Evening Rituals to Recharge Naturally
You don’t have to do all of these. Just choose one or two that feel supportive, not overwhelming. The goal is not perfection. It’s permission — to rest, reset, and return to yourself.
1. Shut Down Your Screens with Intention
Set a time (ideally 30–60 minutes before bed) where you intentionally stop scrolling. Not because it’s “bad,” but because your brain needs space to shift out of stimulation mode.
💡 Try: Moving your phone charger to the hallway. Or setting a “wind-down alarm” as a gentle cue.
Want to learn more? Check out this great article on digital sunset habits.
2. Create a Skincare Ritual That Feels Like Self-Love
Skincare isn’t just about appearance — it’s about presence. A calming cleanse, a nourishing serum, a few slow breaths while massaging your face… It’s grounding.
I personally love using ultra-fresh skincare by Ringana — it’s so clean, so natural, that I feel like I’m giving my skin a second breath at the end of the day.
💆♀️ Tip: Apply your products slowly, like you’re telling your skin “thank you for today.”
3. Sip a Calming Herbal Tea
Trade that glass of wine or last-minute espresso for a gentle tea that supports your nervous system.
✨ Great herbs for evening:
Chamomile (soothing)
Lemon balm (stress support)
Tulsi / Holy basil (adaptogen)
Lavender (relaxing)
☕ I sometimes add a magnesium powder for even deeper calm.
4. Practice the “5-Minute Tidy”
A messy space can keep your mind alert. Set a timer and do a quick reset of your room, desk, or kitchen. Nothing deep — just a gentle clearing.
🧹 Ritual = clearing space in your home and in your mind. It’s also a way to make sure you don’t have anything pending from the day before, which helps you start tomorrow with more clarity and calm.
5. Switch to Warm Lighting
Bright blue-toned light can suppress melatonin. In the evening, go for soft, amber or candle-like lighting.
🕯️ I use a salt lamp by my bed and it instantly shifts the mood.
6. Journal 3 Thoughts to Let Go
Write down three things you don’t want to carry into tomorrow. It could be:
“I didn’t finish the email.”
“I felt overwhelmed in the meeting.”
“I scrolled too much again.”
Writing it down = releasing it.
✍️ Optional: Add one thing you’re grateful for (or three 🩷).
7. Do a Body Check-In
Lie in bed and gently scan your body from head to toe. Notice where you’re holding tension. Breathe into it.
💬 Ask yourself: What do I need to let go of?
This brings your attention out of your racing mind and into your body.
8. Create a Personal Sleep Mantra
Something soft and reassuring, like:
“I am allowed to rest now.”
“My body is worthy of recovery.”
“I trust that tomorrow will unfold in its own time.”
Repeat it while you're lying in bed. Let it settle into your nervous system.
9. Use Natural Scents to Signal Sleep
Your brain connects scent with memory. Using the same essential oil every evening can create a powerful signal: “It’s time to rest now.”
🌿 Try: Lavender, cedarwood, sandalwood, or vetiver. Diffuse it or place a drop on your pillow.
10. Go to Bed Before You’re Exhausted
I know. Easier said than done.
But when you wait until you're utterly drained, your cortisol rises again, making it harder to fall asleep. Go to bed while you're still a little calm — not collapsed.
⌛ Aim for 7–9 hours of sleep. It's not lazy. It's life-giving.
💗 My Story: When I Realized Rest Wasn’t Optional
I used to think of rest as a reward — something I “earned” after doing enough. But over time, I noticed I was giving all my best energy away to everyone else… and leaving myself with the scraps.
My turning point came when I realized that rest isn’t selfish — it’s sacred.
It’s where my healing lives. Where my softness returns. Where my body repairs.
And it didn’t require big changes. It started with just:
Turning off my phone earlier. I have a sleep mode on from 8pm to 7am.
Putting on skincare that made me feel nourished.
Letting go of guilt and choosing softness instead.
Now, I really enjoy my evenings. Not because I do them perfectly — but because they feel like me.
🧠 Quick Summary: Your Evening Recharge Ritual (Pick 1–3)
Power down screens
Nourish your skin with calming skincare
Sip a grounding herbal tea
Do a 5-minute tidy
Switch to warm light
Write down what you’re letting go
Body scan + breath
Repeat your personal mantra
Use a calming scent
Go to bed before you’re totally wiped
🌟 You Deserve to End the Day with Energy
Not a burst of chaotic energy — but the energy of peace, of release, of knowing that your day was enough… and you are enough.
Evening rituals don’t have to be long or luxurious. They just have to be intentional.
So tonight, ask yourself gently:
“What’s one small thing I could do to honor my body’s need for rest — even if I only have 5 minutes?”
You are worth that care.
💌 Next Step
In Happiness Is a Habit™, I guide women through a 6-phase journey to rebuild their habits from the inside out.
We don’t start rigid routines.
We start with clarity, mindset, and self-trust — so your habits become a reflection of who you are, not just what you “should” do.
You deserve energy that lasts — and rest that actually heals. ✨
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Curious to learn more? Let’s talk about it. WhatsApp me!
Lots of love.
Helena🌸
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🌿 PS: If you want to see what tools I use to support my healthy routines, check out my curated list here — including my favorite Ringana products. No pressure, just love!
